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From Debbie
After 15 years of marriage and a great sex life, my husband just stopped wanting sex.  At first if I begged he would do his duty, but not very well.  Then he stopped - after 6 months of taking care of business myself, we went for drinks after work.  I did not want to cheat, but after a few drinks and some slow dancing, he had me. He was smaller than my husband, and came a lot faster, but he took the time to take care of my needs. This went on for 3 months almost daily - then one day my old husband was back.  I stopped seeing my lover the day my husband was back. 

I think my husband knew what I was doing, but he never said anything as he had no interest in me, so I did what had to do.  If he cut me off again for that long, I would do the same thing again.  Both girls and guys have the right to be looked after in the bedroom, if your partner will not do it, there is nothing wrong with shopping around.

From Helen
I had an affair a few years ago with a man I meet on a business trip. I was a virgin when I married and had started to think about having other men's cocks. I wanted to feel a longer or larger cock than my husband's since I enjoy the different size dildos we have. But I also want the feedback from a man as I hear him moan as he is about to come, or the watch his face as I suck on his cock.

From Anonymous
I can't speak for all men that cheat, of course, but I have cheated a couple of times in my married life and the primary reason was the woman's encouragement to do so. That, by and large, is the main reason I would ever cheat - the woman wanted to have sex, plain and simple. It's a man's biology that would cause us to cheat when the woman encourages it. It is the biology of the male species to respond to the female's need... which is stronger (at times) than any moral logic or what-have-you.

By the way, I had to tell my wife that I cheated. For her to find out any other way would not be acceptable. Surprisingly, she accepted it because she knew the circumstances and appreciated my honesty in 'confessing' to her... good woman and one that I appreciate.

From Joe
All primates, us included, will try to make sure their genes are passed on. At least we humans do not go so far as to kill the offspring of our rivals (or at least not normally). Why do people "cheat"? Because it is hard wired in to do so. The virtuous stay "faithful" to an impossible ideal. The rest of us go out and fuck like the baboons we really are.

From Joe
My girlfriend cheated on me last week, I found out because I went to her apartment and was just about to knock on the door when I heard her moaning, so I went outside and peeked in her window and saw some guy on top of her on the couch, she had her legs up on his shoulders and he was just plowing away at her. He had a huge penis, long and really thick, at least twice as big as mine. He didn't even have a condom on and we have always used one, we have been together two years now. They did it for about 20 more minutes then he came in her.  I haven't told her I know she is cheating but just watching them I could see how much better sex with him must be, I know he stretched her a lot, the next day she only wanted oral and she told me to suck it gently so I know he hurt her.

From Don
Reading the stories on cheating they seem to fault the men. It takes TWO TO TANGO. I was the head of a sports club, small thing, but I was approached often and I did not take all the opportunities. Also I sold houses and was approached there to. My wife did not care much for sex and I had to really work to sell it to her. I just got tired doing it that way when there were sexy women ready and willing. I even had an Irish Catholic 33 yr old woman present me with her virginity. We had a relationship for over 10 years.

I met a young mistress of a business tycoon in London on the Underground, went to see a London show and ended up in her paid for apartment in the Park Lane area. Went back to London three different trips. That covered 11 years. Each was an adventure and they are still my friends. I told them I was married and maybe that was what they liked. A couple of them were in the 30s+ with children, divorced and had never had an orgasm. I corrected that. One took me in her dead mother's house on her bed and while she had her period. I am now past retirement and not a stud muffin anymore. I just listened, fondled their feelings, and ego. I'm bad but it has been fun.

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