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From Tom
Emma, the definition of pornography is not "the graphic sexually explicit subordination of women through pictures or words." [see Emma's entry below] Gay porn made for gay men that doesn't have any women in clearly exists. "By logic and common sense, pornography for women is a contradiction in terms." No offence, Emma, I think you're projecting.

From Emma
The definition of pornography is the graphic sexually explicit subordination of women through pictures or words. By logic and common sense, pornography for women is a contradiction in terms. We're more than half the population and there are entire industries and cultural institutions for Women. Something as simple as an aid to masturbation would be easy enough to create to pander to Women's tastes. Since it does not exist in any practical form with billions of people on the planet, it is proof that this idea is nonsensical. The idea that it might exist is a projection of the Male mind.

From jojo
A while ago a friend and I went into a sex toy shop. A man came in and sidled around the shelves. Whilst we were bantering, he looked up and said "I didn't think women came into these places." I waved the vibe, she waved the cuffs and I said "Who do you think uses these things?" The look on his face told me he'd not thought of that angle. I think he'll send his woman next time. By the way I like porn

From Judith
I am a straight female who, after watching porn for a number of years, finds it predictable and boring. However, I do like to masturbate while watching my favorite DVD of a younger woman going solo. I try to do what she is doing and orgasm along with her. My guy will sometimes masturbate along with my on-screen playmate and I, but says he would rather just watch me. I think that's special.

From Anonymous
I tried getting into porn when I was younger, but what I saw was obviously intended for a male audience. Now that I'm older, I can't support an industry that exploits women this way. Why do so many people, especially woman, want to ignore this ugly reality? You can have sex and masturbate without getting off to other women being exploited.

I once had a virgin boyfriend learned his sexuality entirely from porn movies. He was the worst lover I've had. He actually thought I would enjoy defecating on him! Disgusting. I have heard other similar things from women who were involved with men who are porn addicts.

I can't support an industry which continues to mis-educate men as to what women actually enjoy sexually, sorry having sex with dogs does not do it for me, neither do any of the other degrading and misogynist things I've seen in and heard about porn.

From Anonymous
This may seem rather simplistic, but I think the only reason men seem to like porn more than women is that they don't have very good imaginations. I kind of like some porn, certainly a nice change of pace sometimes, but when I'm in the mood for self-love, the porn in my head is simply way better than anything that exists anywhere else. Any combination of men, any location, all of them saying and doing exactly what I want. The only difference between that and porn is that mine requires a good enough imagination for the fantasy to seem real.

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