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From Stacy
I'm much more into soft porn than the hard stuff (which is what my husband likes).  I think I'd get VERY hot if I were to watch two guys going at it...but my husband would freak out if I asked to rent a DVD like that. I know what works for me is reading erotica...and again, when I read about two guys having sex, I get very very hot and bothered. So for me, the bottom line is, let me read instead of watch.

From KarenJ
I run an adult paysite for women [For the Girls] and I'm extremely pleased to find this page. The comments here back up what I've long believed - that women are capable of enjoying sexually explicit material just as much as men.

Of course, the vast majority of porn out there IS designed for male tastes, and I know that while women find porn a turn on, they also feel somewhat dissatisfied with what's being offered.

I'm doing my best to change porn from within, which is why I've been writing women's erotica and making sex sites for women for almost 4 years. One of the biggest obstacles to making good porn for women is finding decent content. So often photos of sex rely on overused conventions and stereotypes that are quite frustrating. You know - the woman always wears high heels, the "money shot", the facials etc etc.

From Jane Lane
I'd have to agree with most posts here. Porn IS about women, but perhaps it goes deeper than that (no pun intended). Usually, curious or horny (or both) people watch porn, like a discovery. I admit to watching it, and I admit to liking it, I am a woman, and that comes as a surprise to many men as it's almost a dream for them to have a girl who likes it.

The aim of being alive really is to procreate, to have sex and increase the population. Human beings were built with a sex-drive and porn is just one of those natural things that spawns from such a reason. I see it as an exploration of sexuality, and if women were not supposed to express and explore their sexuality, then what a biased world it is.

You either like porn or you hate it. Everyone's seen porn sometime in their life, but not everyone admits to it. The one thing to remember is that you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself for such a thing. once you've seen one porno, you've basically seen them all..

From Robert
Again, I'd like to start by thanking you for this site. This is the first site I've found that really discusses erotica, porn, sensuality and sexuality.

The question at hand, is porn for women? Yes, and no. I'm a guy who loves porn. I've been watching since I was about 9. And back then porn was better in a lot of ways. It was still on film. The set ups were no more realistic, but it was more beautiful and women were stronger. The sexual revolution empowered women. And it was the stronger more mature women that I really loved, and still do.

I've been really disgusted with the modern trend in porn, to be brutal and demeaning of women. It doesn't appeal to me at all. But I've also been disappointed with the few porn designed by women. I found it too soft. I would love to see more of a story with strong characters and great sex! But I also jack off to porn I wouldn't share with my wife.

I would love suggestions on porn that is good for couples.

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