How To Jazz the G-Spot & Ejaculate
by Laura Weide & Alicia Guinn

Our bodies are capable of amazing things! Female ejaculation is just one of them. When a woman ejaculates, a clear watery fluid chemically similar to male prostatic fluid squirts out of her urethra. While some women ejaculate with an orgasm, others find that orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct functions which happen separately. In either case, G-spot action is essential to ejaculation because it stimulates the production of ejaculate by the paraurethral glands.

Lots of folks are skeptical about female ejaculation and even doubt the existence of the G-spot! If you need irrefutable proof that the G-spot and female ejaculation exists, check out Deborah Sundahl’s video Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot. It features a scene in which you can actually see her G-spot. During the course of the video, you also get to see several women ejaculate. It’s a movie that could change your life. (Or at least your sex life!)

Turn yourself on. The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid. When you aren't turned on, the wall of the vagina feels fairly similar all the way around, but when you get aroused the G-spot becomes more firm with blood and other fluids. Grab a vibrator, your favorite sexy movie, or indulge in a hot fantasy.

Add a finger or toy. Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly. Your fingers may be too short, in which case, try a curved toy designed for women to reach their own G-spots

Firm strokes. You'll know when you hit the G-spot by the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren't feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the urethral sponge is behind it, so you'll need to press. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or crinkly; noticeably different than the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a "come hither" way). Try various degrees of pressure and a range of motions.

Experiment. There is no single "right way" to jazz the G. The size and sensitivity of the G-spot varies a lot. You'll just have to experiment. Some like rhythmic pressure on the G-spot, others really like to have their clits stimulated at the same time their G-spot is stroked. A partner's fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine. Others like the swooping motion of fingers or a twisting dildo like the Rabbit Vibrators:

Ejaculate (or not)!  Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to men's prostatic fluid. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won't worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be copious. Objects in the vagina may block the uretha, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While not every woman ejaculates, female ejaculation is not uncommon, and it is considered a normal aspect of female sexual response.

Partners and sexual positions. During partner sex there are some sex positions that are more conducive for hitting the G than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner has a curved G-Spot Dildo or penis, it's the cervix, not the G-spot that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy style, or the receptive partner receiving a dildo or penis from behind, puts the G-spot in the bullseye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bedstand and create a more angled space in the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.

G-spot response varies dramatically: remember there's no one "right way to experience pleasure." Rather than turning your explorations into a task or new goal you must achieve, try to approach it with a sense of fun and enjoy all the sensations along the way. Happy sex adventures!

© 2006 Laura Weide. All rights reserved.

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