Fed Up With Following the Rules?

by | March 1, 2014 | General | 4 comments

Do you agonize over what will sell?

Are you torn between what inspires you personally and what the pundits claim will garner you a best seller?

Scared that your work is too extreme or bizarre for the reading public?

Has worrying about markets and taboos taken all the fun out of your erotica writing?

We have the answer!

Here at ERWA we have declared the month of March to be National Write Whatever the Hell You Want Month. The brainchild of contributor Donna George Storey, NWWTHYWM starts today.

The rules of this effort are – there are no rules. And to support you in your efforts to throw off the shackles of genre tyranny, we’ve set up a page for you to share your thoughts and experiences. Just go here:

https://erotica-readers.com/blog-page/

You can also reach this page by clicking on the link at the top of the right sidebar.

Have fun. That is, after all, what it’s all about…

~ Lisabet

Lisabet Sarai

Sex and writing. I think I've always been fascinated by both. Freud was right. I definitely remember feelings that I now recognize as sexual, long before I reached puberty. I was horny before I knew what that meant. My teens and twenties I spent in a hormone-induced haze, perpetually "in love" with someone (sometimes more than one someone). I still recall the moment of enlightenment, in high school, when I realized that I could say "yes" to sexual exploration, even though society told me to say no. Despite being a shy egghead with world-class myopia who thought she was fat, I had managed to accumulate a pretty wide range of sexual experience by the time I got married. And I'm happy to report that, thanks to my husband's open mind and naughty imagination, my sexual adventures didn't end at that point! Meanwhile, I was born writing. Okay, that's a bit of an exaggeration, though according to family apocrypha, I was talking at six months. Certainly, I started writing as soon as I learned how to form the letters. I penned my first poem when I was seven. While I was in elementary school I wrote more poetry, stories, at least two plays (one about the Beatles and one about the Goldwater-Johnson presidential contest, believe it or not), and a survival manual for Martians (really). I continued to write my way through high school, college, and grad school, mostly angst-ridden poems about love and desire, although I also remember working on a ghost story/romance novel (wish I could find that now). I've written song lyrics, meeting minutes, marketing copy, software manuals, research reports, a cookbook, a self-help book, and a five hundred page dissertation. For years, I wrote erotic stories and kinky fantasies for myself and for lovers' entertainment. I never considered trying to publish my work until I picked up a copy of Portia da Costa's Black Lace classic Gemini Heat while sojourning in Istanbul. My first reaction was "Wow!". It was possibly the most arousing thing I'd ever read, intelligent, articulate, diverse and wonderfully transgressive. My second reaction was, "I'll bet I could write a book like that." I wrote the first three chapters of Raw Silk and submitted a proposal to Black Lace, almost on a lark. I was astonished when they accepted it. The book was published in April 1999, and all at once, I was an official erotic author. A lot has changed since my Black Lace days. But I still get a thrill from writing erotica. It's a never-ending challenge, trying to capture the emotional complexities of a sexual encounter. I'm far less interested in what happens to my characters' bodies than in what goes on in their heads.

4 Comments

  1. Donna

    Thank you, Lisabet. You're definitely the brain-midwife of this venture :). Now let's have fun!

  2. John Carcosa

    If only I had seen this before I gave up on trying to write professionally.

  3. Remittance Girl

    I think it's a wonderful thing!

  4. t'Sade

    Yeah, that's going to be fun. 🙂

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