Okay…I’ve only ever tried a butt plug once in my life, and it sure as hell was troublesome! Damn thing wouldn’t stay put! I suspect that’s because it was a rather slender one (a beginner butt plug, so to speak). But did it ever feel good! I liked it! Wanna try it again! I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. They look rather intimidating to me, but I’m willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).
What I tried and don’t like is anal sex – being buttfucked. I found the in and out motion seriously uncomfortable. Don’t ever want to try that again. So butt plugs rock my world, but actually buttfucking not so much. I’m sure there’s plenty of opinions on this. Tell us about your butt plug experiences, the good and the bad. —Anonymous
From Gary
What will they come up with next? I never cease to be amazed at the selection of butt plugs when I visit my local adult toy store. I recently bought the Anal Pacifier (advanced) and, while not huge, it hits the prostate just right and I highly recommend it for anyone wanting to enjoy anal play. It will absolutely stay in place and you can wear it all day without fear of it coming out and embarrassing you.
From Anonymous
I’m another female that likes anal stimulation with butt plugs very much. I have a lover who inserts a well lubed finger in my butt while he licks my clit. The feeling of fullness is incredible. When we can’t be together, we indulge in email erotica. We both self pleasure using butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, etc. and write to each other how it felt and how we imagined each of us was using the toys on the other. When I’m self pleasuring now, I insert a dildo in my butt, one in my pussy, then I “ride” both of them in a squatting position, while I hold a vibrator to my clit. The orgasms are so intense, I feel like I could pass out! Great site, thanks!
From Dutch
I wear butt plugs quite often. One of my favorite things to do is to wear one underneath my suit at the office. It can become quite challenging because in a sense, the plug is locked in. Going to the bathroom, taking the plug out, cleaning it, and bringing back to your office is not really an option! My favorite plugs are metal ones, with my most recent being one with a rattle on the inside. As you walk, you feel it clanging within the metal plug, sending quite an amazing feeling through your prostate!
From Teresa
I have never used a butt plug, but now, after reading some of the comments here, am thinking I might try one. I have had anal sex, willingly, and I do like it, but it is very bad for the rectum. I had to give it up. That part of the body really wasn’t meant for fucking!
From Mike
The difference between a butt plug, and being buttfucked: The butt plug fits snuggly. It leaves you feeling full. It stimulates very sensitive membranes. BUT it doesn’t do anything unexpected. Once it’s in, it stays in. It doesn’t move in and out. The butt plug has a waist shape that allows the anal ring to close behind it, taking the pressure off the muscle. The butt plug will also compensate for loss of strength in the pelvic floor during sex, making the vaginal penetration more effective.
Compare all of this to being buttfucked. No control. Constant stretching of the the anal ring. Lots of friction – even with a condom. Not the same thing at all.
From Dave
My wife occasionally likes a small one in her butt as we screw doggy style. It seems to heighten her orgasms. For variety, we frequently masturbate each other and I enjoy having her stimulate my prostate with one of her vibrators as she pumps my cock. Creates a huge orgasm.
From Sue
Hey Amy, you’re not alone. [see Amy’s entry below] I’m sure there’s lots of us ladies that like Butt Plugs. I love mine, and I have a few that look very girly, which I enjoy. I’m not into the humiliation thing, I just think butt plugs feel great, and it’s damn sexy wearing one as foreplay, like during dinner or some such. Gets both of us wildly excited. And yes, indeed, I agree it does feel really good to fuck while wearing a butt plug. However, I dislike (read that hate hate hate) anal sex. The pumping in and out is uncomfortable. But a solid in there butt plug – yes! Fabulous.
From Amy
Seems like butt plugs are mostly a male thing, I guess because of the prostate, but I’m one of the rare girls who really like these butt intruders. There’s a fun humiliation aspect to it, and it just feels really good to have my man screw me in my pussy while I’ve got a plug up my butt. Not very ladylike, I know.
From Ted
I’m straight and I love the feel of a butt plug. Squeezing down, jiggling, or adding a vibrator stimulates the prostate and the internal base of the cock – two distinctly different pleasures. The plug makes me feel the full length of my cock, as if inches longer. I can maintain an arousal indefinitely, because my cock requires less friction to stay up. If I’m not feeling particularly horny, the plug will give me both an erection and desire. A lot cheaper than Viagra.
From Anonymous
Wow, am I glad I found this website! I thought I was a “select few ” that was into anal insertions. My favorite are my string of rubber anal beads – I love pulling them out as I orgasm. I also love inserting a bunch of tampons and walking around for a while before removing them, not sure that is safe but it damn sure feels awesome!
From R
I’ve always wanted to try a butt plug, but don’t have the nerve to purchase one, I’d be so embarrassed should my kids or roommate find it! But I fantasize about having one in my ass and going through my day as usual. When I get a partner I’d like for him to make me wear it all day as a reminder of his control.
From Anonymous
As a 27 year old girl who has been at the receiving, ahem, end of anal sex. I don’t understand why so few engage in it. Having something up my ass prior to or simultaneous with other stimulation gives me some of my intense orgasms. Being single for just over a year now, I own 8 anal toys of various shapes and sizes, and use them quite often. I have also experimented with everything from salamis to zucchinis and the sight of an oversized carrot makes me blush.
From Ms Michelle
I have enjoyed anal stimulation since I was a little kid at the doctor’s office. When I got married, my wife completely understood and it occasionally becomes part of our sex play. I bought my first plug about three months ago and it’s great! I bought the small one and was disappointed in how easily it comes out.
When we went to buy a medium my wife found a wireless remote controlled one! Now she’ll put it in me before we go to the grocery store and “buzz” me several times here and there around the store. Her favorite is to “buzz” me when I’m at the deli counter or the checkout. It’s hard to keep a straight face in front of a stranger when your back door suddenly gets vibrated. Thank goodness the motor is quiet enough to go undetected.
From Anonymous
I love them, have one in right now. They make me feel great, I love the feeling of being full. Tonight I got my girlfriend to help me put mine in. It was amazing, it’s pretty big so I got it all ready and she put it in for me. She then pulled it back out and put it in again, I’m hoping to wear it more often now. She says she really liked helping me put it in.
From Tynda
I happen to have a butt plug up my ass as I write this. My ass has been craving fulfillment, lately. I’m a 25 year old bisexual female who loves the feeling of stretching out my rectum and filling my ass with a plug, dildo, or cock. I’m curious about why this sensation is so pleasurable to some and not others. Don’t we all have nearly identical nerve structure? I wonder if there has been a psychological study done to determine correlations between people who enjoy anal stimulation and people who don’t.
From Phil
My wife was out of town and I was horny so I decided to try one of her dildos. Being adventurous, I tried one of her larger ones. I really lubed it up and inserted it slowly into my anus. It wasn’t easy and it did take some time to get it fully inside. Once there, I was amazed at the unique sensations it provided. I lay their face down, completely nude, fucking my own ass with my wife’s dildo!
Remarkably my cock was very hard without any stroking, the sensation of a faux cock in my ass was more than enough stimulation to make my cock grow. I rolled over onto my back and positioned myself so the base of the big rubber cock was pressing against the mattress and my body weight kept head and shaft firmly shoved deep inside of me. First let me say that my cock felt longer and thicker than ever before and I jerked off slowly as I gently ground the dildo against the bed. I came INCREDIBLY hard. It was one of the most powerful and productive self-induced orgasms I have ever had. I plan on introducing my wife to this new “twist”…I cannot imagine the sensations provided from one of her succulent blowjobs with her dildo in my ass.
From Ginger
Am I the only woman out there who enjoys wearing a plug during normal heterosexual intercourse? The feeling of fullness it provides, without the complications of having a MMF is unsurpassed. Having had multiple children has left that region a bit different than it was years ago, but using a medium sized plug during intercourse has restored some of the sensations for both my husband and myself.
I have yet to try to get hubby into any type of anal play, as he is morbidly homophobic, but he has no problem with my wearing the plug and even suggests it for me – as it helps me to climax much faster for our quickies.
From Wondering Male
I am a straight 30-ish male who has never felt attracted to men at any level. Yet I enjoy stuffing my ass (I have a collection of pretty big plugs and dildos), and recently I found myself on my hands and knees in front of my favourite mirror with a lifelike dildo in my mouth and a larger one going in and out of my ass. I sometimes fantasize about getting my ass fucked by a man to see if “the real thing” feels different from the dildos, yet I do not think of myself as gay or bi-sexual.
From ButtSlammed
I’m a 30 yr-old male with an ass-plugging hobby. I recently worked up to a plug with a 3-inch width—I love this plug so much that it is on the verge of turning me into a homosexual! I’ve noticed recently that when I’m not wearing it, I miss it, to the point that I will squirm in my chair at work and often fantasize about being fucked up the ass by a man.I think of my anus/rectum as a “pussy” now. I’ve always been excited by women and never by men, but suddenly I can’t stop wishing someone would bend me over and fuck my ass!
From Anonymous
When using someone else’s dildo as a butt plug, make sure to wrap it in a condom. The bacteria in your ass isn’t compatible with the bacteria in your or your mate’s pussy. It also makes cleanup so much easier! Just throw out the condom.