I was reading an article that tried to answer the question of ‘What Do Men Think About When They Make Love?’ The gist of the article is that that men think (worry) about how soon their partner is going to come so that they can let themselves go. And I can’t buy this — can I? So tell us, what are you guys thinking about when the clothes come off, and love making heats up the sheets?
From Anonymous
During sex it depends. If I’m horny and haven’t come in awhile I try to think of things to prolong the sex. If I think of having sex or how hot it is, it will be a quickie. Now if it’s the 2nd or 3rd time and I am lasting forever, sometimes my mind will wander to some fantasies. Imagining her as her best friend, the hot girl at work, the girl I saw at the store, an old girlfriend or how my wife is hot and a horny cum lover.
From Around the bend
Simple. I think about how to keep from coming too fast. Fortunately, my wife orgasms fast and rerpeatedly. For me, I get past that initial point of no return and unless she hits my magic spot, it usually doesn’t… return.
It leaves me longing and I find myself envisioning past loves, weird combos of lovers and hoping she will punish me, peg me or role play a 50’s mom. The dress, the lingerie, the hair and all. She is very willing to participate, but it takes a lot to make me come. So I find myself beating off a lot.
From Dougie
I practice Tantric Alchemy. I don’t think anything. I pay attention to the feelings, the energies, chakras, the shakti the sensations and everything. I don’t have fantasies or think anything. It is very meditative sex. I feel my way into what I can really only call a “Living Goddess communion”. It is an ecstatic state of communion with my Beloved. It took considerable practice over 15 years now, to be able to enter these mystical and ecstatic states reliably and repeatedly. I wouldn’t want to go back to ordinary sex.
From England
I’m thinking, “Please don’t let her husband show up now.”
From Lancelot
I remember my first times, I was trying to focus on something not to come too fast so I can bring her pleasure. I didn’t find anything because it was such a hard effort to concentrate on different topics while you’re involved in such an act. So as I’m a gamer, I began to think about a video game and how cool that would be if I bought it…10 minuts later, I wasn’t excited anymore, and she either. One advice don’t think too much.
From Anthony
My wife swears that I can’t do two things at the same time. Although I can’t remember her registering any complaints when her nipple is in my mouth, the palms of my hands are underneath her ass and she’s riding me from on top.
From Sweetnsuckulet
People may not like my answer but truth be told. I have on several occasions found myself thinking what being fucked while I suck or fuck my wife would be like. Or while being fucked thinking/wishing I’d be sucking another man’s dick. Sucking pussy while a cock is 3/4 way inside her.
From Tammy
Oh My God, I have found my favorite web site! I read many of these replies with a very big toothy grin on my face! How I love you men! I am addicted to your thought process on any of the Inquiring Mind Questions. Nothing turns us women on sexually more then a man with a great sense of humor and the ability to express it in words! And I didn’t even have to see a picture of your penis to get excited! How about that!
From Anna
I love this site! Its so good to have an insight into what is going on in the mind on you guys! Although I really can’t believe some on you really have to be thinking about other woman to get you off!
From Anonymous
I think about what I’m feeling, wonder about what she’s feeling, what I could do to make her or myself feel better. Things like that until the sensations begin to overwhelm me, then I very quickly mentally clean the garage, cut the grass, paint the hallway or anything else to settle me down and make it last longer. Hey, I get more work done during sex than I do in a month of Sundays!
From Jim
Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Don’t come yet. Piss on it….ahhhhhhh.
From Peter
At my age, 57, I often think of women I have known that I could have fucked but didn’t because I was married and didn’t want to hurt my wife. But I do think about them offering their bodies to me…holding her breasts and offering me her nipples, spreading her cunt lips apart so that I can slide my prick inside. I think about fucking her while a crowd watches us. People smiling…masturbating…saying fuck her hard. Sometimes I think what it would be like to fuck her sister…certain women I work with.
From Robert
Lol, ok I love this site. Thank you. For me it really depends on the woman and the situation. Now that I’m married, my thoughts are usually trying to figure out how to make her come harder. How to really get her off, and with kids, it’s usually how to get her off fast so I can before we’re interrupted!
From Mufdiver
I think of my wife having sex with other men, it is a real turn on for me. She doesn’t know what I’m thinking because if she did she would be real pissed off..
From Anonymous
How good it would be to watch some guy bang the heck out of my women.
From Gary
Here’s a few that have occurred to me from time to time:
* Who’s going to sleep on the wet patch afterwards?
*owowwow, yes darling I now understand your reluctance to indulge in anal sex so could you please extract that unlubricated strap-on from my arsehole and I promise never to ask you again.
*Oh. My. God. That’s never happened before. And to make it worse she’s saying “it probably happens to all men from time to time.”
*I wonder what her sister’s like.
*I wonder what her mother’s like
*urm…I know it’s called a blowjob, but you’re supposed to SUCK, dammit.*
*I wish she’d stop yawning!
From Charlie
I’m still trying to remember what sex is!
From Steve
I think about giving her the best sex and also enter my own fantasy world. I imagine that I become a vampire in search of her blood. Sometimes I switch between it being me being the vampire, or me being someone else pretending to be me, but still being a blood thirsty vampire, and she’s not aware. It’s extremely powerful. Then in the heat of all this, I imagine that I bite into my selected neck vein (actually only kissing or licking her vein though). All the while we are having great sex and she is moaning, sometimes even saying “Bite me!”. It’s hot!
From Shorty
During sex with my gf, I have so many thoughts and fantasies. Many are taboo. I think about her being gang-banged by two or three guys while I watch them dump their loads into her vagina. I would also go and lick their cream from her pussy.
From Vee
I just stumble on this site and I love it, I will have to say is that I got so hot just ready the different variety of statements from each of you and can easily place myself in every situation. I love the stories you guys have given and I hope to hear more in the future, thank you.