Relationships with age disparity are frequently mocked with snickering remarks. Often wealth and physical attractiveness are seen as more relevant then love. Sexually, it’s noted that older people tend to have lower sex drives, and younger people tend to be sexually inexperienced. But, what is the reality? Do you have experience with younger/older relationships, and if so what is the reality—the good, bad, and ugly?
Men reach their sexual peak at eighteen. Women reach theirs at thirty-five. Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke? —Rita Rudner
My first experience with an older man was when i was 18 and he was 23, my partner flew all the way from Indiana to see me. Sadly, I moved away to the Carolinas where I fell in love with another older man at 23 (he was 62.)
I’ve appreciated older men and women, and at 35 now, I have an older Dominant who is 67.
I have had sexual affairs with men old enough to be my father, and men young enough to be my son. They each were unique as individuals, yet attractive as archetypes because I never lost appreciation for what made them special as individuals. That discovery process made the sex wonderful.