Guys, What’s the longest you can comfortably wear a cock ring without chafing? Would you mind giving me some examples of your favorite cock rings to use, eg., metal, plastic, etc. and what they do for you to heighten your orgasm? Inquiring minds wanna know. —Sedona
From Guy
I may be past the age for benefitting from cockrings now at 78yrs . I bought a copper one many years ago that circled my whole scrotum, supposedly to create a mild electric current. I didn’t really achieve anything from it.
After a heart attack earlier this year and now taking medicine that prevents the use of Viagra; I bought a penis pump and silicone cockring. The pump creates a lovely erection, but sadly it subsides as soon as the vacuum is released. The cockring does create a really hard erection with maximum girth and swollen head. Unfortunately it causes a minor bruising, where a small amount of blood escapes in just one spot under the skin. I tried using it for sex, but in the missionary position my cock deflated. I think it may be good with my wife riding me on top, will try that next time.
From Eric
They really work. It can be uncomfortable to wear them at first, but I got used to that pretty quick. The only problem now, is it makes my dick to big for my current girlfriend.
From Ralph
My wife and I tried the Tri-O jelly cock ring with vibrating bullet on my shaft for her and another bullet with around my balls. WOW! I slipped on my sheer silk bikini with my balls jutting out pushing against the thin fabric. After stripping me naked she proceed to rub herself against my bulging sac riding me while circling my nipples. I was able to keep the ring the whole time as most times you have to rip the ring off to come. She kept calling my cock enormous.
From Eric
I recently rediscovered cock rings. I had some buried away in my dresser drawer, and I broke them out for the first time in a while. I had forgotten how pleasurable oral sex was when wearing one. I use what’s probably the most basic variety. They are called “Nitrile Cock Ring“. I like them because they are very flexible with a snug fit, but not so constricting where they become uncomfortable. I can slide them on pretty easily, although I do wait until I’m fully erect.
Once on, and I feel like I’m sporting a steel pipe! My head swells up to probably twice it’s normal size and is extremely sensitive to the tongue. Since the type I use are stretchy and flexible, it doesn’t hinder ejaculation in the least. Most of my experience with the rings is for use during oral, but I am definitely going to utilize them in the future during intercourse.
From Concrete69
I bought the silicone tie type cock rings and love them. It helps keep my cock like concrete and makes sex greater than ever. My wife loves it and it makes me feel like I’m in my twenties again. Definitely recommend them!
From Bob
I’m surprised no one has mentioned that just wearing cock rings for the walk-around feeling is worth the investment! I bought chrome-plated rings from a hardware store, intending to wear them simply as a jewelry item in a very special place. But I have since wanted heavier and bulkier rings simply to add to the feeling of presence down there. Weight swinging around down there is foreplay! Trouble is, now I have to think about how to keep them on when “Fred” shrinks when I’m out and about. A cock ring clanging across the floor while I’m shopping at K-Mart just doesn’t seem so sexy!
From Cecily
I bought my husband a flexible cock ring with clit vibrator for Valentine’s Day. Boy, do these ever rock! This one was super flexible, fitting around his balls and cock and gave him the hard-on of the century. When he slipped his cock into my pussy, it was like granite and he lasted a long time. The extra clit stimulation was glorious. I like a nice deep fuck, but the way he and I align doesn’t usually give me much clit action. I asked him to vary his stroking, since I like full-length strokes where he almost totally pulls out, but quickly plunges back in. On those strokes, the cock ring’s clit stimulator hit the mark each and every time. As he gets closer to coming, he and I like him to fill me up nice and deep, so at that point my clit was getting almost 100% vibration which sent me through the roof. When he finally came, I felt him ejaculate against my cervix since his head was super engorged. Loved it! Afterwards, he stayed in me a while with the clit vibrator bringing me to the moon yet again. We’ve repeated this experience several times since, with similar results. A real lady pleaser!
From Al
I’m not fond of the darn things…. have only used a couple and then discarded them. I had one that you could adjust and it was a thin rubber strip like an o-ring if you know what that is. But it had an adjustment that seemed to always catch my hair and then it hurt so that didn’t last long. I also had a leather one that had adjustable straps on it. Didn’t like that one much either. It really didn’t prolong my erection though really … and maybeI was using it wrong … but it never seemed to work like it was supposed to which is to trap the blood inside so you don’t go flaccid. But out of the leather one and the rubber one I preferred the leather.
From Cervo
The only one I ever tried was made of steel. It was quite heavy. The lady thought that was all sorts of butch, but she of course was not wearing it. I think she bought it at a plumbing supply house. Anyway it felt like plumbing equipment when I put it on. It was heavy, annoying, distracting, and finally boring. I took it off and had a drink instead. She was annoyed and disappointed. So much for cockrings.
From Anonymous
Can someone answer this question, Can the cock ring cause any type of damage? I like to wear mine behind the scrotum and around the base of the penis. For example, could this cause damage to the bladder or testicles? Also, some of these cockrings are made to keep the testicles from rising. (worn around the scrotum) could this damage the cords that pull the testicles up? (maybe pull a muscle or ligament)? please let me know.
From Piers
How long can one wear a cock ring and does it do any damage? Both questions depend on how tight you have it adjusted. The benefit is that it (obviously) enhances erections by restricting blood flow through the Corpus Cavernosi (the three lengths of spongy tissue which causes an erection when engorged). In practice the penis balloons up more than is normally possible at liberty making it a lot thicker, causing the glans to expand beyond what you might have considered possible. The shaft thickens, the veins bulge and, depending on how it is adjusted, can even enhance length.
But beware! There is a price to pay. Prolonged constriction of the penis can cause a Priapism. This is a medical condition in which injury causes a persistent and painful erection, which, if it lasts for more than four hours can become a medical emergency and the administering of a drug called Terbutaline is the only relief. The condition can lead to impotence or, in extreme cases, amputation.
Fortunately, I never experienced any problems like those. I no longer use cock rings because as you get older the penis tissue becomes thinner making wearing anything on it uncomfortable. But everything still works down there and I’d say – yeah, have fun, use cock straps and cock rings, but be careful!
From Jazz
It’s been a while since I looked at this site but very timely now as just last week I was in Milan and bought a set of three cock rings very similar to the ones on Good Vibrations (great site, by the way!). I’ve worn them several times since and while I don’t consider myself to be above average size I do find even the large one a bit of a squeeze to go over my cock and balls. To be fair my balls are probably bigger than your average guy…not a boast just a keen observation.
You’re suppose to wear the large ring as you’d guess over the whole caboodle and slip your balls through the small ring. Mine just would not go so I used the middle ring and then slipped the small one over the base of my dick. The overall look and feel is great but I do get very engorged. I love the sensation on my balls which anyway are a sensitive pair and with the combination of the two rings on they feel as if they are getting some extra special attention.
I agree too that the rings make for a stronger and more intense orgasm which shoots further…reminds me of when I was younger and took such things for granted! So, from a recent and new user of cock rings I’d say ‘go for it/them’ definitely but my recommendation would probably be to choose something which is more flexible or adjustable than the metal variety.
From Dave
I’ve used a variety of cock rings for years. The pressure they create heightens my orgasms. Lately I’ve come to prefer a simple adjustable leather strap around my cock and balls. Masturbation is more intense and my wife likes to have the strap hit her clit during intercourse. The extra pressure on my balls makes it fantastic.For safety sake, I loosen it frequently to let some blood circulate. With some lube and a little common sense I can maintain an erection for several hours. The resulting orgasm is more like an explosion.
From Daniel
Yes, cock rings are beneficial. The notion that “she” must be willing to have you use one certainly adds to the passion and orgasms. We use a vibrating one called the “clit flicker”. The “clit flicker” has a protrusion that looks like a small tongue. The “tongue” hits her clitoris and helps bring her to more intense orgasms. She says the vibrations are great for her during intercourse. The vibrations also help stimulate my penis and my orgasms are also much more intense.This “clit flicker” at first looks huge and cumbersome. But, after several times and learning to use baby oil or lubrication, we learned how to use it properly. We will definitely try more “vibrating” cock rings. Do we use it all the time? No. But when those times occur when we would like to be a little bit more passionate and need some extra sexual release the “clit flicker” helps.
As one woman stated “a good tongue is the best,” my wife hardily agrees but the use of cock rings certainly add an additional bit of spice when one is desired. The wrong one might be torture but the right one is certainly a very good tool.
From Don
Adding my experience here. I’ve used cock rings for years and have been assured by doctors and nurse practitioners that such is totally safe. (I can imagine that if worn tightly for hours they could be a problem, but, I chuckling, recall the Viagra ads that say an erection lasting four hours is a problem. Like don’t we wish!) The only functional ones I have found are described all through this string, i.e., ones that go around the base of the cock and under the balls.Adjustable Cock Rings work best for me. Although I have also used steel rings. Steel rings are on there until one gets soft enough the ‘re-thread’ ones balls back through them, which even after orgasm can be several minutes. I have successfully used leather rings adjustable via a series of snaps, and rings adjustable via velcro links. The velcro ones are vastly superior IF their design is such that the rougher velcro does not irritate your partner, or self (rough velcro under shaved balls can be distracting as hell).
As indicated throughout this string: Good Cock Rings really enhance an erection and help keep it a long, long time. With 50mg of Viagra the erections can be stupendous! Said erectile enhancement extends to the head which can get ever so full. The key word is ‘good’. Do not be afraid to shop around and try out many. They are inexpensive. If you can swallow any homophobia you have I have learned that men running gay bookstore/sex shops are knowledgeable consultants. No they will not ‘hit’ on you. They are there to sell a product not to find sex partners.
For the record I have had rings on with an erection for up to at least an hour and a half. More than enough for almost any sexual activity I can imagine. One thing one might expect when rings are tight is what is called a ‘retrograde ejaculation’. It results from the ring stopping, or diminishing the flow of sperm as your orgasm spasms. Instead the sperm backs up into your bladder, to be voided the next time you pee. Not a concern, unless you want to display a big manly load. If the latter is the case, use an adjustable ring, and get it off as you start to skim that cum.
From Brutus
I have used many styles of cock rings for about 15 years (I am 64), usually for 20-40 minutes at a time; which is the typical time range suggested by my medical folk. The only pain or discomfort I have had was in the beginning when one got wound up in my pubic hair; I stared shaving. I have only used them during sex (intercourse/oral/anal) and loping my mule; never wearing one around during the day as some previously noted (I would be interested in any insight on wearing one thru the day. Do you wear them much looser?).
In using cock rings I have found them to provide harder, longer lasting erections and an increased sensual feeling to touch of any kind on my cock. I use the standard rubber or silicon shaft ring, double rings, ball & cock ring, various ones with clit and pucker string stimulators and combinations of the foregoing. Obviously the ones I lean to the most are the ones with a combination of the best fit, best feel for my wife and lest complicated to get on. A long time ago I started carrying a Ringo (cheap shaft type ring) in my pocket in case my wife and I are somewhere we have the chance to have spontaneous sex outside or in an interesting location.
From Adam
The first one I ever had was thin and adjustable, it was sorta like one of those weird neckties that don’t actually get tied but instead have a buckle or something clamped on it. Anyway, I liked the results but didn’t really dig the the hair tugging that resulted from the contraption, lube did help but just a little. It didn’t take too long for me to figure out that the problem wasn’t the ring. The problem was the hair. Once that was gone so was the discomfort. I got a lot of use out of that one for a while but have since discovered that I prefer having ‘at least’ one much thicker ring positioned behind the sack accompanied by smaller choker up front.
The question of whether damage could result from wearing a ring for too long is one worth asking. I’m not sure about the risks to the reproductive system. But from a vascular point of view, it is my understanding that cells will eventually die if they do not receive enough O2. Fortunately the arteries which deliver the O2 rich blood to those cells are not as close to the skin or as pliable as are the veins which carry away the de-oxygenated blood. The veins are being restricted by the ring while the arteries continue to allow blood to build pressure thus resulting in the “Cockring Effect”. Blah blah blah…
My guess is that extreme restriction could possibly result in a loss of a little sensitivity. But, because the typical cockring is essentially just an amplifier to the natural, more familiar, “Boner Effect”, which doesn’t seem to bother my penis one bit. This is not a common problem.
From Ted
I love using cock rings for both masturbation and sex with my wife. I just use the rubber ones. I’ve used the ones that fit over just the base of my cock and ones that fit around my sack and cock. It definitely makes my peter bigger and harder, especially the head. I put is on when my dick is still soft so I can avoid lubrication to slide it on. My wife loves the added girth.I do recommend shaving your sack and at least the hair around your dick so it doesn’t get entangled.
From Teddybear
Personally, I prefer the Heavy Rubber Rings. They generally come 3 to a pack (small, medium, and large). I have the small and medium on right now. I use the medium one around my whole package and the small one around my balls. They really enhance my penis and seem to pull my balls almost inside my wife’s cunt when we’re making love. I wear the cock rings a good part of the day.
From Monty
I love my cock rings! but I have been looking at getting a new one that is tear drop shaped and is said to rub on the area between your cock and balls and also a ring called a glans ring. I would like to know if anyone has ever worn either of these and if so how did you like it. Also some of the glans rings have a knob or a plug that goes inside the head of your cock! Please tell all about how this feels.
I am now 83 years of age and have had two types of cock ring for years. A triple cock ring and a monster quad cock ring which weighs a ton., and is a bugger to put on. Both are heavy chrome metal. No matter which one I wear I usually also wear my glans ring. which means I achieve a massive hard-on which is very satisfying and pleasurable.
I can still cum although I no longer produce any spunk.
I try not to wear either of my cock rings for longer than about 4 hours in case I do any damage, so I take it off, have a rest then reinstall again. I am having 4 or 5 such sessions per 24 hour period, including through the night and in the day time.
All in I can thoroughly recommend a regular cock ring regime..