Let us count the ways…
Does anyone have any thoughts on preferred or interesting positions, specifically what people like or don’t like about various postions? Do you do it standing up, lying down, on your side, doggie style? With or without cushions? And has anybody here tried it with both ankles behind their head… and then gotten stuck? Let us know. I want all the juicy details! —Anonymous
From Mansa
My favorite is the position in which I am on top. My husband likes it too since it requires less physical work from him. I like it because I can get better satisfaction.
He lays down in the bed with pillows to prop him up a bit since I am short and he is tall. I sit in his lap as I straddle him. His penis slides in me right away. As I lean on him a bit, my nipple touches his lips and he takes them in. His sucking continues throughout the intercourse and then a bit longer after orgasm. He switched from one to another nipple periodically.
He does not pull himself out right away. Gradually penis goes back to normal position while he is still sucking. He goes to sleep for 20-30 minutes with my nipple in his mouth. If for some reason my nipple slipped out, I would just pull him to it again or offer other side. He always took it back and sucked. I always felt that his sucking made me feel more intimate and passionate about him.
From Jane
Standing up? Isn’t that dancing? Baptists don’t like that here in the south…
From Mike
I like to stand when I’m having sex. It gives me a firmer purchase, a stronger thrust and a better view. A good orgasm tends to bend me like a bow being pulled taut. That’s easier to achieve if I’m standing. Sex usually takes longer than the both of us can stay balanced and upright. So, if she’s standing, she’s bent over something. A sofa, the bonnet of a car (hood to you folks who speak American) a sink, or a desk have all played their part.
When she prefers something with a little more comfort, chairs and beds come into play. I love it when she kneels on a hard-backed chair, her breasts hanging over the back, her arse sticking up, where I can circle her and tease her, especially if she’s blindfolded, before I enter her.
But my favourite is still the bed. We have a high metal-framed bed that allows me to stand and her to start off on all fours facing away from me. It allows her to fall forward as we progress and gives us both something to collapse on afterwards.
From Eric
This site rocks! So many interesting topics! Well , here’s my 2 cents….. When my girl and I are seeking to make love, we always come around to the “guy flat on his back position”. I love this arrangement for numerous reasons. I love watching my girl gently ease her way on to my erect dick , gently situating herself for maximum comfort, and the sexy little “ummmm” she coos when she’s all set. I love being able to lock our eyes on to each other, love having my hands free to caress her cheeks, her lips, her beautiful tits. Run my hands through her hair. The biggest turn-on for me is just the pace of this position. Slow at first, building up to a mind-blowing sexy rhythm, and concluded with my girl literally riding my cock until orgasm. We take this set-up seriously, with scented candles, our sex cd we burned, and often conclude with a romantic shower.
From Anonymous
One of my favourite positions is when my husband and I are in our spa, facing each other. He picks me up and the water helps him support my weight, he holds me close and I can wrap my arms around his neck and shoulders, and my legs around his hips. This also works at the beach, providing you’re out deep enough for the water to support your weight.
From Ray
My wife’s favorite position is on her back, legs on my shoulders, feet around my neck, satisfying for her since it gets my cock deep inside her. For the same reason my favorite position is me on my back and she riding me. Both also work for us since while she is on her back my fantasy is her sucking off a guest male while for her, she riding me, allows her fantasy of me sucking off our guest male while he sucks her nipples and they do deep tongues.
From Dangerous Bill
We’ve started out in all sorts of positions, but usually move to a bed or the floor to complete the act. Stand-up foreplay generates lots of interesting possibilities, but we’ve outgrown the notion of trying to out-Sutra the Kama Sutra. Too hard on the older knees and backs.
From Guy
My favourite position is sitting face to face scissor style . I like to see my wife’s open vulva with my penis sliding in and out. I love the look of a woman’s nether lips and open vulva, that are so beautiful in all their variations. As a teenager I liked to slide the tip of my penis up and down this slippery orifice without entering the vagina.
My next most favourite position is doggy style. I am terrifically turned on by the sight of a woman’s bottom and anus. Again, I like to see my penis sliding into this wondrous soft wet hole. The feel of penetrating from behind is quite different; I like to be able to ease my thumb into her bottom and feel my penis moving through the thin membrane.
My first wife didn’t come very easily face to face in the missionary position; but riding me on top she was multi, multi orgasmic, which we both enjoyed. I could stay and stay without coming, till I chose to. I have always enjoyed to sleep naked in spoons; waking in the morning with a hard on, to slip it into my wife.
Another position I enjoyed was with my wife lying on the end of our four poster bed, which was table height. I could stand between her legs, holding her thighs and thrusting directly into her.
From Jim
One of my favorite positions is the Jockey position. My wife is laying on her stomach and I start out with a nice back massage. Eventually I am straddling her and move down with my hands to her ass. Then work my way up her back and then return to her ass. As my cock gets hard, I position it just right between her ass cheeks. With a little cheek massage and some natural lube, my cock starts to slip between her legs and cheeks. It feel so nice to have her tight ass and legs surround my cock while I continue to massage her back and start pumping with my cock.
Before long I have it worked down to her labia and I can feel each stroke rub against her labia. She is usually getting wet by now and before long I feel the head of my cock part her labia and slip inside her. Nice and easy thrusts work just fine for awhile. But eventually she wants me to slide my cock as far in as I can get it. I feel her ass against my stomach as I run my cock in and out. If I’m not careful, I will come much too quickly, so I usually need to slow down to extend the action. Eventually I go for it and release my cum in her while I feel her ass pressed against me. It is absolutely marvellous.
From San Francisco Femme
Well I do love doggy, extreme missionary (my legs looped over his shoulders), being on top, also him sitting cross-legged with us front-to-front and me wrapped around him (he can buck or I can raise & lower myself onto him quite easily). Though one of my favorite positions that doesn’t seem to get much mention is with him on his side, me on my back, legs spread wide looped over his leg and mid-section. The reason why this works so well is he can enter my front or rear door, it gives him a comfortable position for in & out control, plus my clit & tits are upright and ready for mutual play. We can have sex in that position for hours, neither of us ever gets tired, so ultimately I think it’s my all-time favorite.
From T
I must say, my first choice would be doggy style. My husband can pump as hard as he likes, getting really deep and at the same time I can play with my pussy. It also gives me the opportunity to look down to see him pounding me and to see my juices dripping down.
My second choice is him on bottom and me riding on top. I can control the movement and the clitoris stimulation. My husband tells me he loves to see my tits bounce. And I feel so sexy when I’n on top and can roll my pussy on his dick. And when I lean over, he has access to suck on them. Riding him may also be a power thing too!
From Royal
Our best position is the massage table where I sit and eat her pussy then stand up where she can give me a blow job laying on the table, and then I stand between her legs and ploughing her in and out. One more best sexual position is our bath tub. We have had so much sex where I lay on my back and she straddles me. Last one can be in the drawing room couch, which has seen us in all kind of positions. It’s not the position, it’s the passion counts in the end.
From E
We had done a bunch of foreplay and some straight fucking, and we just weren’t running out of energy. So we started looking for other things to try. We ended up standing up and walking around the room with me boning her from behind. I’m taller, but her legs are long enough that I only had to bend my knees slightly to fully penetrate her from behind with both of us standing straight up. It was amazing, she could play with her clit while I moved in her and I hugged her warmly and played with her nipples. Warm summer air caressing our naked bodies and moving slow or fast. I felt like I could stay hard forever and just massage her body in front of me with my cock buried deep within. We were so wet and horny together, it was fantastic.
From Doug
A massage table is my favorite. On it’s lowest setting I can sit astride and reach the floor on both sides with my feet. She can lay back and put her legs up over mine giving me full easy access to her pussy. She is available for petting at all times in this position. In this position I can pull back a little and she can rub her gspot on my penis head, deeper and I hit the deep trigger. And of course there is the wonderful clitoris. I rotate attentions and after a while she is orgasming wildly and it keeps building as I continue changing what I’m doing. After this goes on for a while I change position a little and shift to the coital alignment technique and ride her orgasmic wave and orgasm with her. It’s a wonderful wild ride that keeps getting better as we learn each other better.
From Bobkit
My ex liked fucking in any position. She was somewhat shocked when I laid her on the couch face down with her cute butt up…she looked at me and asked…”You’re not going to fuck me in the ass?” I said no just wanted to try doggy style. She liked it. You have to be pretty strong to do this, but I picked her up off the floor and settled her on my dick. It did not seem to me a work out but ‘what a fuck’!
My new wife is somewhat disabled with neck problems so we don’t fuck much but I sure like her company. Sex can be taken in hand and you don’t have to bother your best friend!
After some years of marriage with, as I recall, largely missionary style screwing, we ‘fell into’ doggy style and have never looked back. I enjoy the feeling of dominance, the tremendous view of my wife’s round ass and puckered anus as I spread her ass cheeks, the site of my cock thrusting into her cunt, and the lovely sound of hips slapping against ass. I can grab her hips, ankles, hair or put hands on shoulders for very deep fucking. My wife prefers the fit and feel, enjoys being “taken” as it were, and above all the depth of penetration (she’s a bit of a size queen). Also, we find looking at each other distracts too much. We prefer sex to love making, and express ‘love’ other ways.
I like variations:
1. Me supine with her on top in whatever way she chooses.
2. Doggie style.
3. Adapted missionary as described on my post in the nipple play section.