I have received a lovely set of gold Ben Wa balls, and naturally are expected to use them. Does anyone have any experience with them? Do you worry about them “wandering” or disappearing? How long can you safely have them inserted? And any other indelicate questions you can think up answers to. —Cathy
“There are a number of mechanical devices which increase sexual arousal, particularly in women. Chief among these is the Mercedes-Benz 380SL convertible.” — P.J. O’Rourke
From Lesly
A Ben Wa (the “Greater Ben Wa”) is a mythical creature. The male of the species is said to have been hunted by female inhabitants of Toyland because its balls had the power to excite a woman into having an orgasm when inserted into a vagina and left there for a while. Many women reported a feeling of fullness and arousal when the ben wa balls were in their vaginas. Their greatest use is reported to be by women going solo, if you get my drift. (Statistics reported from various sex toy shops.)
Unfortunately, the species became extinct because so many males were castrated in order to harvest their balls. Thus, today we have the inferior product offered by sex toy shops – made of metal and having a mass inside each ball which can move around and thereby excite a lady.
A smaller creature, the Lesser Ben Wa, is rumored to have once existed. It was a much smaller creature whose balls were quite smaller than those of the Greater Ben Wa. Those balls were commonly strung together and used as ANAL BEADS – quite nice for men or for women. Insertion and removal of the modern version is also a special sporting event, by followers of the “Back Door Method.” A partner is usually involved, rather than doing this by yourself. Pulling out the ‘necklace’ is considered quite a sport by some ‘perverts’, which means most of us.
From Dee Ann
I was a little nervous at first when my husband inserted them but as I calmed a bit the pleasure was great. First use we went to a movie and setting there the balls moved clanging each other making me very warm. I found myself rocking in the seat and bringing on a powerful orgasm. Now as a practice he places the balls just before we go out on our private evenings and we both enjoy the results!
From Megan
During my last visit to the sex shop, I spotted a pair of Ben Wa balls and decided to try them. When I took them up to the counter, the woman working asked if I had ever used something similar before. When I said that I hadn’t, she suggested that maybe the Duo-??? balls would be easier to start out with, as the Ben Wa’s were quite heavy. After taking a look at what she was describing, I decided to go with the little golden Ben Wa’s, without the string, as opposed to the larger, white, plastic Duo-?? ones. When I got home and had a chance to try them, I found out that they were actually not that hard at all to hold in, and they were comfortable.
After wearing them for some time, not experiencing any of the stimulation I had heard some people receive from wearing them, I had chalked them up to being nothing more than an exercise tool. Then I discovered something by accident while wearing them at work… I had forgotten I was wearing them, and one started to slip out, while the other was still fully inside… the rhythm of walking was making them move and bump against each other, and it felt AMAZING! Now I love them… they make work so much more enjoyable… and no one even knows they are there!
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