Okay…I’ve only ever tried a butt plug once in my life, and it sure as hell was troublesome! Damn thing wouldn’t stay put! I suspect that’s because it was a rather slender one (a beginner butt plug, so to speak). But did it ever feel good! I liked it! Wanna try it again! I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. They look rather intimidating to me, but I’m willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).
What I tried and don’t like is anal sex – being buttfucked. I found the in and out motion seriously uncomfortable. Don’t ever want to try that again. So butt plugs rock my world, but actually buttfucking not so much. I’m sure there’s plenty of opinions on this. Tell us about your butt plug experiences, the good and the bad. —Anonymous
From Glenn Allen
Great to read everyone’s thoughts on butt plugs! I love wearing a nice plug and cock ring. If you have a problem keeping it in place, a nice tight thong is a good idea. I find it improves the feeling of fullness. If you aren’t sure about trying a plug there’s a few things to consider: buy a medium sized one, because the small ones are just too thin to feel good, and your butt will be able to stretch. Make sure you use loads of lube and what ever you do, don’t rush it! Don’t shove it in and make it hurt! Take your time, relax and it really just feels great.
From Walter
As a youngster I found my mother’s vibe stash. I was not very familiar with them but had seen or heard that it was supposed to go inside of you. Once I mastered the controls I found a place that I could put it. It just happened to be my ass. Being straight I have not tried to fine a man to provide this feeling, but lord knows that I have tried everything else. Lately I seem to be focused on size. I have tried almost every round(ed) object in my house.
I have a large plug that I use. It seems to have a mind of its own and seeks deeper ground. I have been through a garden of veggies, and a piece of fruit or two. Candles, brushes, handles, door knobs and the sorts. I am always seeking a new household item to play with. but it started with a simple desire to feel like someone was having sex with me.
From Pete
Butt Plug in great fun but when it comes out? OUCH! I have today for the first time used a huge “5 butt plug! I was so pleased after getting it in and I must say it gave me the best orgasm that I have ever had! I want to do it again right now but the only problem is that as your ass seals itself around the butt plug and it holds it in this is great for getting a good orgasm but it hurts like hell to get it back out afterwards!
From Sins
I have bought a small butt plug and I am wearing it in public since then. It feels great! It stays in place, continuously rubbing against my prostate, although I am quite loose for this size. That is of course, as long as I do not “push” it out. It is made of silicone hence it is very flexible and does not feel uncomfortable under any circumstances (like driving, walking, running….). I usually wear it first thing in the morning until I get back home; that is a good 9 hours.
My gf convinced me to try anal play, starting with her fingers in me as we fucked then with some starter butt plugs. The rubber ones felt ok but then she bought me a metal plug — I loved it but knew I needed something bigger when I saw the strap on dildo she wanted to use in me.
So we bought an Asvini Glass Penis Butt Plug and WOW!
It is thick and quite long, and the first time I took it, I could feel my anus being stretched as the bulb slowly entered me. The decent flat base means there is no danger of it slipping inside, so much so that now she has me wear it to work, all day.
We have both noticed how I tend to stand straighter, back slightly arched and butt out when this is in me and I often have to conceal a soft gasp when I sit down at meetings. My body weight pushes it deep inside me for a delicious sensation. The weight and smooth texture of the glass cock add to its attraction.
On top of which, it stretches me beautifully and enables me to take the dildo with relative ease.
If you have not tried butt plugs, my advice is simple: go for it.
I am a straight man with a strong anal fetish. I have always loved being anally penetrated, either by myself or by a woman, and I love receiving analingus. I have long been fascinated by anal toys and have a collection of dildos, vibrators, and plugs. I still have the first toy I bought, a small flesh-colored butt plug that I bought at an adult store when I was in my twenties. This was before the internet, when you had to go to a “dirty bookstore” to find sex toys and porn. I still use it, though it is too small, with not enough of a taper at the base, to stay inside. It’s mainly useful for relaxing my anus and preparing it to receive a bigger toy (I also still have the double-ended red jelly dildo I bought at that store, with a long narrow end and a thick, shorter end. I have had other butt plugs but never found one that was small enough to go in easily but big enough (and with a narrow enough taper) to stay inside and not pop out. I have discarded a couple plugs I bought because they were not comfortable. Maybe I’ll look again on the internet to see if the perfect design is out there, with a narrow tip widening to about an inch and 1/4, and then tapering back to about a half inch diameter for about an inch until the flared base, which should be shaped to fit nicely inside the gluteal cleft.
The first sex toy I ever bought was a medium-sized flesh-colored butt plug. I found it at a sex shop where I occasionally bought pornographic magazines back when I was in my mid-twenties. I still have it and use it, decades later, along with the other dildos and sex toys in my collection. It’s the thickness of my thumb but a bit longer, so it stretches the ring of my anus more than a finger. The circumference widens only a little in the middle, so it doesn’t stay in very well. It will pop out if I’m not focusing on keeping it in. For that reason, I generally use it to relax and stretch open my anus in preparation for something bigger.
I once bought a higher quality silicone buttplug, but it turned out to be too big. At an inch and a half, it was just impractical for me. An inch and a quarter would be OK, preferably slimming back down to no more than 3/4″ at the base, so it would stay inside. (A butt plug needs to be narrower at the base so the anus closes around, with the wider part inside). I haven’t looked lately, but I’d like to find the perfect plug along those lines, something that isn’t too big but has enough of a bulge in the middle to stay in until I pull it out.
I know the subject here is butt plugs, but I have to say that I get more use out of a slim, hard plastic vibrator with a bent head that makes it easy to target the prostate. I also have a Nexus prostate massager that isn’t so easy to insert but once it’s in it’s comfortable. The round tip presses right where the prostate is, and I can manipulate the small handle to move the tip on my pleasure spot. It also has a metal ball that rolls on the perineum outside. Then there’s my true love, my jelly double dong, with a long, slender end (3/4″ diameter) and short, thick end (1 1/4″ diameter). I have almost always use the slender end when I’ve make myself the bitch with this wonderful toy. I grip the thick end in my hand as I plunge the long, slender end in and out of my asshole.